How Divorce Works - Start With What Matters
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How Divorce Works
Start With What Matters
Understand the family transition you're facing before you start making decisions about your children, your home, your money and your future.
92-minute video Orientation + Divorce Strategy Canvas + Planning for Divorce Workbook + Our Kids Checklist + bonus video
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$219 USD
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Educational information, not legal advice.
Start with your family.
Divorce isn't primarily a legal event.
It's a family transition that has legal consequences.
And we tend to start divorce in the wrong place.
We start with the law.
I want you to start with what matters.
What you receive
92-minute How Divorce Works video Orientation
Understand the decisions involving children, parenting, money, property and process, and where the legal system fits.
Divorce Strategy Canvas
See the gap between what the legal system prioritizes and what matters to your family.
Planning for Divorce Workbook
A practical roadmap for gathering the financial and family information you'll need.
Our Kids Checklist
Questions to help you think about what your particular children need.
Bonus video
For anyone who feels uneasy about how their spouse may respond to separation or divorce.
Lifetime access
Watch immediately. Return whenever you need to.
$219 USD
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Why I created How Divorce Works

I'm Kim Korven.
I'm a retired lawyer with two law degrees. I've worked as a lawyer, adjudicator and mediator. I've also been divorced.
Those experiences taught me something that changed the way I understand divorce:
What matters to a legal system and what matters to a family are not necessarily the same thing.
I'm not pro-divorce.
I'm pro-kids experiencing greater peace and love in their families.
Sometimes that means parents find a way to stay together.
Sometimes a marriage ends.
I'm not here to tell you which is right for your family.
I'm here to help you understand the landscape before you make decisions that could shape your family's future.
You don't need to have decided to divorce.
You may be considering divorce.
You may know your marriage is ending.
You may have recently separated.
You may already have a lawyer or mediator.
How Divorce Works doesn't tell you whether to stay or leave.
It helps you understand what you're dealing with before you start making consequential decisions.
Start with what matters.
You may need a lawyer.
You may need a mediator.
You may need financial advice.
You may need court.
Or you may discover there are decisions you can make without any of them.
Start with your family.
Understand what matters.
Then understand the law.
Then decide where the law belongs.
How Divorce Works
Start With What Matters
92-minute Orientation + Divorce Strategy Canvas + Planning for Divorce Workbook + Our Kids Checklist + bonus video
$219 USD
Immediate access | Lifetime access
[GET HOW DIVORCE WORKS]
How Divorce Works provides general educational information, not legal advice. Family law varies by jurisdiction and individual circumstances.